For quite some time many Catholic bloggers have become quite used to criticizing our Bishops for timidity or worse. Not these days. I enjoyed reading and writing about so many Bishops rising to take on heterodox politicians such as Biden and Pelosi. As much as that was, I think this is even better.
Some people were concerned when Sacramento Coadjutor Bishop Jaime Soto accepted an invitation to be the keynote speaker at the National Association of Catholic Diocesan Lesbian and Gay Ministries held last week. If I knew about it, I would have been concerned too. It was too easy to imagine a Bishop showing up at such a conference to tell them that God love’s them just the way He made them and that they should never be discriminated against. Too easy to imagine technically true platitudes that are completely besides the point but designed to send the message, “Don’t worry about what the Church teaches, you are just fine.”
I suppose that is what the attendee’s at this conference expected too. That is emphatically not what they got!
[Cal Catholic Daily] But there was noting ambiguous about Bishop Soto’s remarks to the group. “Sexual relations between people of the same sex can be alluring for homosexuals, but it deviates from the true meaning of the act and distracts them from the true nature of love to which God has called us all,” Bishop Soto said. “For this reason, it is sinful. Married love is a beautiful, heroic expression of faithful, life-giving, life-creating love. It should not be accommodated and manipulated for those who would believe that they can and have a right to mimic its unique expression.”
At least five members of the audience walked out during the bishop’s address. When he finished speaking, there was general silence — with only a very small number applauding.
The chairman of the conference then announced that the bishop would answer questions at a reception that would be held in another room. That led to widespread expressions of disapproval from members of the audience, who said they wanted to be able to express their responses immediately. It was agreed that those who wanted to speak would line up. The bishop was told twice by the chairman that he was free to leave if he wanted — or to stay and listen. Bishop Soto stayed and sat quietly listening to every response.
A series of about eight speakers came to the microphone to express their unhappiness with what the bishop had said — and what they felt he had not said. One woman said, in essence, “We know what the Church says. What we wanted you to talk about is the value of our lived experience as lesbian women and gay men.”
Two speakers — one man and one woman — thanked the bishop for his address and voiced their agreement with what he had to say.
While the audience members were responding to the bishop’s remarks, a board member of the National Association of Catholic Diocesan Lesbian and Gay Ministries came up to one of the tables in the room and said, “On behalf of the board, I apologize. We had no idea Bishop Soto was going to say what he said.”
Wow! Wow! Wow! My hat is off to Bishop Soto for the courage and conviction displayed by preaching such an unpopular but needed message in such a hostile setting.
I am particularly struck by the board member apologizing because he had no idea what the Bishop would say. I imagine not. This gives me hope that perhaps in the not too distant future we will once again expect Bishops to teach what the Church teaches, no matter who the audience is.
I have one lingering question though. I can’t help but wonder if the attendees enjoyed their spanking?
September 28, 2008 at 5:48 pm
Minion,
With all due respect, if you have read this site for more than a week, you would know that this doesn’t even rank in the things I should apologize for.
September 28, 2008 at 6:02 pm
Patrick,
Please don’t listen to these politically correct party poopers.
I love your blog just the way it is.
September 28, 2008 at 7:19 pm
I see that the Tyranny of Nice is on the rampage here…some of the nice nannies must have drifted down from Canada or gotten blown over from Great Britain. The last line is practically harmless…and those who protest appear a bit snotty themselves.
I have seen the same attitude in some progressive pastors who step in dog poop and then accuse those who notice the odor of being unchristian.
September 28, 2008 at 8:31 pm
Patrick,
I don’t think you need to do a “mea culpa” over your comment. The folks at the convention thought they were getting a Bishop to push around and give them a pat on the head. I am sure we would have been upset to hear comments directed to him after the talk. I believe there is an organization for homosexuals that abstain and lead a chaste life, but I doubt this is it–because that group would have had no problem with what the good Bishop said.
September 28, 2008 at 10:55 pm
Getting away from Bishop Brown has given him strength. God Bless Bishop Soto and may he continue to teach the Catholic Faith as the Bishop is the primary teacher.
What good is working hard if you can’t laugh a little.
September 28, 2008 at 11:08 pm
Its great to see Catholic charity at work here 🙁
Some of us have issued a real complaint with a distasteful line in an otherwise fine blog and get insulted over it. I understand the authors position, I really do, but I still think he went over the line. He was plenty sarcastic and “funny” without having to uphold some foolish untrue negative stereotype.
September 29, 2008 at 4:25 am
I think that we should all email these bishops who are willing to stand up for the Truth (and for us) and tell them that we are praying for them, and that we thank God for their courage. It takes a lot to stand in front of a group of people and tell them the Tough Love they need – we are blessed to have bishops like Soto, Burke, Chaput, and Sheridan among us. Christ clearly has not abandoned His flock!
September 29, 2008 at 12:34 pm
I thought the comment was a bit juvenile, too. It’s pretty mild, but I did notice it and thought it ended the article on a lower note than the rest of it had had. Somebody above made a comment about pedophile priests, and I think it’s a good point: I get tired of little “jokes” about the scandal made by people who don’t like the Catholic Church. I think making jokes about a supposed Gay and Lesbian lifestyle is similar to that.
September 29, 2008 at 4:20 pm
patt. s – Yes there is an org like that. Its called Courage. It helps people who have same sex attraction live chaste lives.
September 29, 2008 at 6:49 pm
What a brave man! He spoke the truth gently but firmly…
September 30, 2008 at 5:12 am
Why should Patrick apologize? His comment referred to the attendees of the conference, not to all people that have same-sex attraction.
Check out the “National Association of Catholic Diocesan Lesbian and Gay Ministries” website and you will see that they are very unrepentant about their deviant behavior.
Patrick’s comment may have been a bit snarky, but it certainly was fair based upon the composition of the attendees at the conference.