Nothing makes a father’s heart perform an Olympic level triple-gainer skip like hearing his teenage daughter say, casually, “Dad, I wanna’ go to confession.”
I mean, come on. The good news is obvious. My child has developed a sudden, burning desire to get right with the Almighty. She’s thinking about her immortal soul. She’s spiritually mature. She’s basically one step away from joining a convent and writing hymns about lambs.
The bad news? What in the name of all that’s holy did she DO? What unspeakable horror has she committed that requires emergency sacramental intervention? Did she rob a bank? Start a cult? Post something on TikTok that could get the entire family excommunicated? My brain immediately launches into a full-color horror movie montage of possibilities, none of which involve minor teenage infractions like forgetting to take out the trash.
So, being the responsible, slightly terrified parent I am, I attempt to locate a parish that still offers morning Mass AND confession on a weekday. It turns out that apparently in the modern Catholic Church, grace is like a limited-time Black Friday deal. It’s offered for fifteen minutes every February 31 but only when it falls on a Saturday. Miraculously, I find a parish somewhat near us that offers confession after morning Mass. So Wednesday morning. We go. There are like 90 people there for daily Mass. Ninety! I start wondering if the parish is secretly giving away free toaster ovens or eternal salvation or something.
Mass ends. We file into what can only be described as the world’s tiniest chapel. Hobbit-sized. If Gandalf had been a monsignor, this is where he’d have hung out. Fifteen of us line up to unload our spiritual baggage. We’re standing there, shifting from foot to foot, trying to look pious while mentally rehearsing our sins in polite euphemisms.
Then the priest arrives.
When I say “old,” I mean this man personally played mahjong with Methuselah’s great-grandfather. He probably baptized Noah’s kids. He shuffles in slowly. It takes him roughly the same amount of time it takes to read the entire Old Testament aloud to reach the other side of this tiny chapel. Finally, he reaches the corner chair, lowers himself into it with the sound of ancient joints protesting like a rusty drawbridge, and waves the first person in line over.
Important safety tip: The priest is sitting NINE FEET AWAY from the rest of us. In a chapel the size of a walk-in closet. There is no screen. No lattice. No privacy curtain. Just Father Ancient and whoever’s brave enough to sit next to him in what is essentially open-air confession.
The first guy in line freezes. He stares at the priest. Glances at us with the look a man who just realized the bathroom door doesn’t lock. The priest points a trembling, bony finger that looks like it was carved from a dinosaur bone. “Come,” he croaks.
The guy shakes his head. No way. He’s not broadcasting his deepest darkest secrets to a live studio audience of 14 strangers and one guy’s daughter.
The priest points again, more insistently. The man shuffles forward like he’s walking to the electric chair. He sits. He leans in. He starts whispering. The priest cups his ear like an old-timey cartoon character. Then he bellows, at top volume, “I CAN’T HEAR A WORD YOU’RE SAYING!”
The chapel goes silent except for the sound of 15 hearts stopping simultaneously. It seems that not only do we have to confess our sins in the open air to fifteen strangers but we actually have to yell our sins.
The poor guy looks around desperately, as if one of us might have a megaphone or sign language expertise. I immediately develop a sudden fascination with the ceiling tiles. The woman in front of my daughter? She doesn’t even pretend. She just abandons ship. Poof. Gone. She’s out in the parking lot leaving skid marks. She’s probably right now roaming the earth still carrying a full cargo of unconfessed sins, probably planning to move to another state.
Now my daughter is next.
She’s looking at me with pure panic.
The man next to the priest tries again, leaning so close he’s practically in the priest’s lap, reciting what sounds like a very detailed litany. The priest, undeterred, shouts even louder: “I CAN’T HEAR YOU!”
At this point, the entire line is calculating escape routes. We’re seconds away from a full stampede. A guy in the back just walks out. Opens the door. Steps through. Gone. Probably never coming back to this parish. Ever.
Then the pastor enters. He sees the ancient priest yelling, the doomed confessor, the line of terrified penitents and his eyes go wide. Then he smiles. The smile of a man who has seen this movie before.
He gently guides Father Methuselah toward the actual confessional booth, the one with walls and a screen and everything. Then he starts leading everyone in a loud rosary. Very loud. Loud enough to drown out anything short of a foghorn.
Problem solved.
My daughter goes in. Comes out. Looks relieved.
I go in after her. Whisper my sins. The priest, now safely behind the screen, hears every word perfectly.
And that’s how we got right with God. Through the miracle of modern architecture and one very loud rosary.
March 22, 2026 at 11:12 am
Why did the ancient priest insist that the Confessions of others had to be face to face? What is it with this weird obsession about how others have to confess? He didn’t see the confessional? He didn’t know about it? I’m sick of priests who, not content with insisting that no one kneel to receive Holy Communion, also insist that they have the right to force you to confess to them face to face.
Kudos to you and your daughter for sticking with it; but if the pastor hadn’t made the old priest go into the confessional, I think you should have left. Someone who is traumatized in the manner that they are forced to confess may never return.
March 23, 2026 at 11:05 am
I had no idea. It’s not my parish but I wondered if he was retired and was just asked to help out that day and he had no idea where anything was. Or he just liked torturing people.
March 22, 2026 at 11:55 pm
This is great! Been reading your blog for close to 15 years now. Always appreciate it! God bless!
March 23, 2026 at 11:03 am
Thank you.
April 7, 2026 at 3:54 pm
One thing to be aware of when going to confession. Cellphones can act as listening devices, even when turned off! To avoid the potential of 2+ listeners to your confession, I recommend leaving your cell phone in your vehicle or with your friend/family member before you enter the confessional, and hope the Priest doesn’t have his cellphone with him either.