I have a smart mouth. My brain, not so much. But I know I’ve done enough damage to people with my words that I’ve learned over the years to hold my tongue. So I tend to… ruminate, as my wife calls it. (She thinks that’s better than calling me dumb.)
But when confronted by a smart aleck comment, my mouth wants to attack. Maybe it’s growing up with five smart aleck brothers and one smart aleck sister but I learned to aleck. I may not be smart but oh boy do I aleck. I aleck lots.
I’m telling you this because a friend of mine had a barbecue this past weekend. As my kids and I got out of our car and walked up the driveway, I spotted a man getting out of a huge black SUV. As God as my witness he had his collar up. I mean, who does that, anyway? I’d never met him before but he and his little boy were clearly going into the same barbecue so we kinda’ walked up the driveway together. And the first thing out of his mouth was “Are they all yours…hee hee?”
August 19, 2011 at 3:01 pm
I love stories like this. Two of my sisters have 'large' families (1 has 4, the other 7) and get similar reactions. they have awful things said to them and have been accused of being 'selfish' despite the fact that 1 has a child on the autism scale and the other has 3 on the autism scale. They are both very dedicated parents and both have chosen to be at home with their kids (one works at home)because they have the special needs children. Neither are rich or ever will be in the wealth of this world but both will tell you their wealth is in their families. There are more important things than worldly wealth in this world.