The figure that 98% of women who have used contraceptives is made up. But never mind that. That number is being used as a weapon against the Catholic church.
The argument essentially goes that wherever 98% or more are gathered in their own name, they’re the new magisterium. They say how can 98 percent of Catholics who have used contraceptives be wrong?
But I also wonder what percentage of Catholics who have used contraceptives think it’s wrong.
I’m sure there are folks who, at one time, used contraceptives but looking back now realize it was wrong.
And I’d bet there are folks right now who currently use contraceptives who are at least conflicted about it or perhaps believe contraceptive is sinful but don’t have the strength to accept the Church’s teaching. So while they may use contraceptives and count among the alleged 98 percent, they actually suspect or actually believe it’s sinful. And don’t think it’s unlikely. I’d guarantee if you asked Catholics about all sorts of sins they’ll have committed them but still believe they’re wrong.
Lusting, coveting, lying, and thieving and all sorts of sins would likely score pretty high on the “have you ever done this” scale. But does that mean we should get rid of prohibitions against such activities?
We are a Church of sinners. Not 98 percent of us. 100 percent of us are sinners. That doesn’t mean there are no sins. It just means we’re all sinners in need of a Church to guide us.
March 17, 2012 at 12:50 am
I want to get in on this and maybe it's because of Anon.@7.27. Thanks for saying this. I was where you were. My husband could not understand why contraception used IN MARRIAGE was not accepted. I think that he knew why but was so frightened that he would not be able to support more children. That was way back then.. he ha d a vasectomy because priests at that time were saying that it was OK if it was OK with his conscience. He also blamed the problems in his parent's marriage with them having too many kids that they couldn't handle or afford. Once it was over he was very relieved but a few years later he was diagnosed with terminal cancer and he got himself to confession and asked for forgiveness. I did also since I was complicit in the whole thing… years have passed. I'm finally able to see clearly that we were very wrong, wish I had it to do over again. I blame myself since if I had really asked that we stick with NFP (we did take the classes) he would have gone along with me. So, I guess I'm one of the former so called 98% but I would never do it again. Please priests, speak out about our beliefs way before marriage.